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so it comes and goes

September 29, 2025

For this post I’m playing off the recurring phrase “and so it goes” from Kurt Vonnegut’s nonpareil 1969 novel Slaughterhouse Five, which opened me to a much wider world. I don’t know if he coined the phrase — advice to accept whatever life chooses to send your way — but it has reverberated through pop culture since. Musicians ranging from Nick Lowe to Perry Como to Ratking to Taylor Swift released songs with that title. There was a British TV show by that name and even an episode of NCIS.

At age 79, a lot has come and gone in my life, much of it fleeting pleasure, enough of it pesky pain. You don’t stack up as many birthday cakes as I have without learning how to roll with the punches. I just had a significant punch. My left lung has collapsed for the third time. In March of last year I had surgery to fix it and it was fine until a month ago. My doctor thinks this leak will heal itself, so I’m on light duty at least until my next X-ray in two weeks. I’m sitting comfotably, and, as always, I’m under constant nursing supervision: my beloved Jude.

I will certainly keep you in the loop. In the meantime I have a lot of baseball and football to watch.